About melissius

A Canuck living in beautiful Colorado. Happily married (Geoff), mom to two handsome sons (Elijah & Miles). I am a follower of Jesus Christ. Life is great.

My Left Foot

The fourth toe on my left foot has been either numb or in pain since November. After months of waiting to see if it would go away by itself, I finally went to see the doctor, who referred me to a podiatrist. Tuesday, I saw the podiatrist and actually learned some stuff! I don’t know why I didn’t suspect that the pain I was feeling could be connecting to what the rest of my foot & leg were doing. I guess because I only noticed the pain in my toe.

He told me I have Morton’s Neuroma. You’d think it having a name would spell trouble, but it really isn’t. And to lessen the pain, I just need to be stretching my calves more. My ankle is tight, my big toe isn’t as flexible as it should be, so all the pressure on my feet have shifted to the other side of my foot. That means my foot is pronating. Evidently I have high arches, and so I put all my weight on my heels and the balls of my feet.

If after a month of stretching the pain hasn’t gotten better, I can go back and get an injection to reduce the inflammation. Oooh, can I? I think I’ll stick with stretching. I might even consider a massage, since when I stretch, my calves are tight too.

Now you know more about my feet than you did before. 🙂

Savior

It seemed fitting to write this on Good Friday.

I may or may not be normal. It was pointed out to me when I was younger, that I have a savior complex. Often I am willing to sacrifice myself to help someone else. And while that might sound altruistic, I don’t believe it always is.

My heart hurts at the feeling of not being able to help those I care for. At times I can delude myself into thinking that if I were actually available to these people, I could save them. But the reality is, I am only human, I can not save everyone. And not everyone wants to be saved. And that makes my heart ache even more.

Truth is I can not even save anyone. I was blessed enough to be saved. And I want that for everyone. To know that they are not alone. God loves them. Life isn’t easy. But life with God… it’s so much better than life without Him.

Spring Break

The snowstorm that flew in Tuesday night cancelled school for Elijah on Wednesday. This was the first time he had a snow day, his school usually doesn’t call them. It also meant it cancelled his field trip to the fire station. He didn’t seem too broken up about it, as I assured him that his teacher would try to reschedule.

The ear infections went away on their own, without the need for antibiotics (yay!). We celebrated by taking a trip to the zoo on Friday. We aimed to hit the places we missed on the last visit, namely Bird World and the red panda. The morning was a success, the weather was perfect, and while there were a lot of school groups there, we didn’t feel crowded out.

Penguins


Now that Elijah is officially on Spring Break, I’d like to visit a few other sites in and around town. This week, I’m keen to check out Littleton Historical Museum. I got that tip from my twitter friend @NotAHandBag. I’m taking suggestions from you guys as somewhere else we should visit, preferably someplace cheap.

Now get out and enjoy that spring weather!

Not A Nervous Mom

I’ve tried to be a laid back kind of mom. I don’t like to call the doctor over every little thing. My kids have been fortunate enough to never visit an emergency room.

But last night when both kids were up several times complaining of ears hurting, I grew mildly concerned. They’ve had a wet cough all week to boot. I checked their temperatures first thing this morning, and they were sitting around 100 degrees.

“Hey Daddy, that water in Miles’ ear must have leaked out some ear wax.”

“Uh, ear wax doesn’t leak out”, he told me.

My kids have never had an ear infections, and I wasn’t sure how to go about treating it. So we took them into the doctor. Both kids have ear infections. Sigh. Well, at least that made the co-pay worthwhile. I hate paying for an appt to be told “They’re fine”. We’ve got ear drops, and antibiotics on standby.

Here’s hoping both boys get well soon.

I’m taking tips on how to make the kids more comfortable, if you have any.

Disney On Ice: 100 Years Of Magic

Let me begin by saying this post and last night would not have been possible if not for Tracy with Feld Entertainment & Susan from Savvy Source. We were treated to VIP tickets to the show because of the misunderstanding that happened on Wednesday night. Thank you!

This was my first time seeing Disney On Ice. How did it fair compared to other ice shows I’ve seen? Uh, it was awesome! Take 65 lovable characters from Disney movies like Toy Story, Pinocchio, Aladdin, and Mulan, add some princess/heroines like Cinderella, Pocahontas, Snow White and everyone’s favorite mice Mickey & Minnie and you have a magical evening. The boys loved it! I nearly cried watching Belle & the Beast skate together. I got all giddy when they recreated It’s A Small World. It was beyond wonderful. This was the reaction from the boys:

Elijah’s two complaints were
1. It’s too short (what?! It was about 100 minutes or so) and
2. Stitch needs his own story told. Disney-take note!

Miles’ only complaint was where’s Batman? (I told him I don’t think he & Mickey get to hang out much)

This show plays through Sunday here in Denver, at the Coliseum (they have free parking!) and then moves onto Loveland, Colorado next week, followed Colorado Springs. It’s a great evening for the whole family, and I heartily recommend it. Info can be found here: Disney On Ice

The Night My Disney Dreams Did Not Come True. (Now With Happy Ending!)

When I was younger, my parents used to take me to see the Ice Capades. I loved it. I don’t know if all little girls who grow up in Canada dream of being graceful on ice, but I did. I lacked a lot of skill on skates, but it did not stop me from pretending I was a figure skater. Skating on the outdoor rink, I’d have my walkman blasting my favorite tunes, and I’d close my eyes for brief moments and imagine how wonderful I was.

I won four tickets for us to see Disney On Ice for Wednesday night. I was stoked. Getting to see figure skating live (which I hadn’t done since 1994), and sharing the excitement of the show with my boys filled me with promise. Yes, it’s figure skating, and yes they are boys, but hey it’s Disney! They could watch their favorite characters doing tricks on ice. I was certain they’d love it.

Even Geoff who isn’t a big figure skating fan (or at all), conceded to joining us. It would be a family evening. We drove our car to the train station and waited for it to arrive. We rarely drive downtown, taking the light rail is cheaper. We arrived at Pepsi Center to see an empty parking lot. My stomach sunk. “This can’t be right. Where are the cars?” The closer we got to the entrance we could see the escalators were turned off. The kids complained they were cold, couldn’t we go in? I checked my phone, and when I googled Disney On Ice Denver, it told me tickets could be bought for the show at Denver Coliseum. My heart sunk. How could I have been so mistaken?

It was now ten minutes before the show started. To get back to the car and drive there would take us at least 30 minutes. Miles cried, Elijah was heartbroken, and I felt like a heel. “I wanna see Batman” Miles wailed (he wouldn’t accept that Batman wouldn’t be there). Trying to explain it to the children, while my own heart was aching that we wouldn’t be going to the show… painful. Once we got back to our warm car, I offered them anything they wanted to do. Ice cream! So we drove homeward, heading to the Coldstone near our house.

This morning when I woke, I went back to the website I won the tickets from. On their site, they say Disney On Ice at the Pepsi Center. Knowing the fault wasn’t mine, I didn’t feel as bad.

Someday I’ll get back to the show. And I will get the venue right. And we’ll have a magical time.
***Update!***
My efforts to contact the website were successful, and with a lot of apologies, they are giving us tickets to tonight’s show. The Marketing people for Disney also saw this blogpost and helped arrange this remedy. I am well pleased that this problem was able to be fixed. Thanks!

10 Days

It’s been 10 days since my last blog post.

This feels like confession. Except that I’m not Catholic.

Here is a quick update, and a view of what’s on my horizon.

Dylan (nephew who dyed his hair pink to raise money for charity) completed the Hair Massacure and is now bald. Looks good on him.

I signed up for another round of Beth Moore bible study. I hesitated because I wasn’t sure I wanted to commit to the homework. But this study is on the Patriarchs (Abraham, Isaac & Jacob) and I like the book of Genesis. I also love the fellowship with these women. Just this week I got an encouraging email from one of them, and it made my day.

My boys have their birthdays coming up fast. Miles has his birthday Monday, their joint pirate party will be on the 28th, since Elijah’s birthday falls on March 6. No gifts have been bought yet, so I have to tackle that today. We may celebrate Miles tomorrow because Monday mornings are busy here. I can’t believe he’ll be 3, they both are growing up so fast.

It looks icy out there, and the forecast just calls for grey skies and snow the next 4-5 days. Isn’t it Spring yet?

Robbie Burns Dinner

Robert Burns “The Bard”, Scotland’s greatest poet, is honored by Scots everywhere with an evening of poetry, whisky and haggis. Robbie Burns Dinners, held right around his birthday (January 25), invite Scots (or wannabe Scots) to gather and celebrate the life of the man who wrote so many poems and songs, including his most famous Auld Lang Syne.

Geoff and I joined our friends Kelly & Kelly at The Wildlife Experience for our first (of many, I hope) Robbie Burns Dinner. Upon entering you could see a sea of tartans. We checked in, and found our table, between the band and the silent auction. Mr. Kelly (as we call him to distinguish him from his wife) showed Geoff to the bar so they could have a pre-dinner scotch. The drink of choice was a Macallan. I perused the silent auction, and really only two things caught my eye. First was a bodhan, a celtic drum, which I hope someday to learn to play. The price was already too high for me, so I moved onto the second item, a bottle of Macallan, 12 year. I figured Geoff would like to add it to his scotch collection.

While chatting with Mrs. Kelly, Mr. Kelly and Geoff were greeted by Robbie Burns. We’re not sure what was said, but the men were laughing a lot.

An announcement was made that the evening was going to begin, so we took to our seats. A procession began, where the chieftain, and other council members of the St Andrew Scottish Society were brought to the head table. A second procession was brought in for the haggis. This pomp included the sword bearer, the scotch bearer, the haggis, a piper and a drummer. There is a scotch ceremony where the procession group drank from the quaich. Mr. Burns recited his poem Address To A Haggis and then plates of it were brought to each table. The rest of the meal was presented, and following dinner the traditional toasts were given. This format seems to be standard, and you can read about it here on Wikipedia.

It was a lovely evening, but we had told the sitter we would be home by 9:30, so we left before the dance. I did not leave empty handed, I ended up winning the bottle of Macallan. You’d think the entertainment would end at that point.

After the sitter left, we opened the bottle of whisky to admire it. Much to our surprise the bottle was 3/4 full. Humorous? Maybe a little. But I bid on what I thought was a full bottle. I contacted the chieftain the next day, and he was also surprised, and offered to resolve the issue. A member of the Scottish Society brought over a brand new bottle of whisky, a Highland Park 12 year.

We are seriously considering joining this society, they seem to be a great group of people. And we plan to be back to the Burns Dinner next January. Wishing you all sláinte mhaith!

Pictures I took at the event can be found on my Shutterfly account.
Here is info on the hosts of the event: St Andrew Society Of Colorado