Dear Mr. Will Smith,

I am thrilled you have decided to visit Denver. I only wish I could be there to greet you tomorrow on the red carpet. I will be at home with my two small children. As a parent, I know you’ll understand.

I think it’s wonderful that you are coming to support the film festival, but not as wonderful as your kind donation to the Food Bank of the Rockies and the Denver Rescue Mission. Generosity, kindness, devotion to family, and a remarkable talent are the reasons you are one of my all time favorite movie/tv/music stars.

I hope our city treats you well, you are welcome to back anytime. I’d love to sit down and talk with you someday, I’m sure you have a lot of interesting things to say.

Best of luck in all your future projects,
Love Melissa Armstrong

Friday night, our friend Cristina came over to babysit while Geoff and I headed downtown to take in Night At The Museums. This is the 2nd year (I think) they’ve done this. Museums stay open late, for free, and you can museum hop. Shuttles were added this year, to make it easier. It was a chilly night, and we only made it to one museum, the Denver Art Museum. We ran into some friends there, and I discovered that I’m not all that crazy about modern art. Most of the pieces left me feeling disturbed, or depressed. There were a few standouts, like Fox Games

And the Houdon exhibit from the Louvre. Next year, I think we’ll try to start earlier, and hit the Molly Brown House and the Natural History Museum.

Saturday night, I got the opportunity to attend the Starz Film Festival and see Slumdog Millionaire.

I heard good buzz about it, and it lived up to it. I think it will fare okay around Oscar time. I was the guest of a co-worker of Kelly’s, who moved here to Denver with his wife. Back to the movie, it was moving, and at times hard to watch, other times I was laughing out loud. I obviously don’t get out to the movies much (this was my 4th this year!), but I would encourage everyone to see it when it opens near you.

I think the one thing I walked away with was how blessed I am, to not have to beg for a living. I had parents, a house, clothes and toys. Seeing children begging and stealing to get by, it’s hard to imagine. For me, anyways. I’ve lead a sheltered life, the “bad side” of Edmonton pales in comparison to the slums of Bombay/Mumbai.

In tv news, Top Chef is back, and there are two cheftestants from Colorado. Whoo! Represent! And are you watching Fringe? Because you should be. I’ll close with a quote from it.

Walter: (on the phone) Uh, hello, Peter. This is me, your father. Walter Bishop.
Peter: Thank you, Walter, I know who you are.
Walter: Excellent.

Yeah, it’s almost mid-November, and I’m behind on my Christmas schedule. Don’t start judging me, I have to mail stuff to Canada, and the mail always takes forever to get the job done. So I like to start early. And I’m behind.

What’s been going on? Uh, the usual. Mom stuff, bible study (which I am so not focussed on), and it seems I flucuate every other day on having a pity party. A case of the “maybe I think more highly of my friends than they do of me”. Feeling a little neglected from some people I’ve been trying to reach out to. I’m dealing with it, and putting more energy towards those friends who do make an effort with me.

The days are feeling too long, the weekends with Geoff feel too short. With the kids up at 6-6:30am then going to bed at 7:30 & 8:30, that leaves about an hour alone with my husband before we retire to bed and we start the cycle again. This is why marriage is hard work. 🙂

Trying to find time to watch movies in that schedule, I have to say we haven’t been able to stay awake to achieve that. We do watch tv that we have on the DVR. Like Living With Ed, Dream House, and endless episodes of Arrested Development. But don’t feel bad for us, we’ve got a date on Friday night. God Bless Christina, who is coming down from Boulder to babysit.

I missed my KUCI reunion on the weeekend. I was not able to find a cheap flight out to O.C. Bummer. Maybe next time. All these trips that I miss out on, will hopefully be made up for if we can pull off the trip to Monterey, CA in the spring. It would be lovely to get more visitors here in CO, next year already has the parents (naturally) and probably Athena. We’d like to get back up to Canada for a visit, but the visa situation is unclear, and money for 4 plane tickets is hard to come by.

Lastly, there are hardly words to convey how happy I am the election is over. It was really driving me crazy those last two days with all the phone calls.

Elijah is up, and he wants to watch Shrek, so I’ll close with a quote from that.

Donkey: You, uh… you don’t entertain much, do you?
Shrek: I like my privacy.
Donkey: Y’know, me too. That’s another thing we have in common. I hate it when you’ve got someone in your face, you try to give someone a hint and they won’t leave, and then there’s that big awkward silence…
[big awkward silence ensues]
Donkey: … Can I stay with you?

Happiest Birthday wishes to Kelly, Chad, Heather, Dylan & Dawn!

Maybe I’m naive, maybe I’m ignorant, maybe I don’t really know people at all, but I have a hard time believing that riots will break out after the election. Is it really something people need to do to show how angry they are their candidate didn’t win? Does it change anything? I know it is possible for either side to resort this kind of violence, I’ve seen it on the news, anti-Obama nutjobs throwing bricks through the Dems office windows here. Anti-McCain/Palin wackos threatening to do something drastic if the Republicans win.

I’d like to hear your thoughts, if you wanna share them. Can’t people just accept whatever the end result will be and pray that good comes from it?

It seems appropriate to close with a quote from Men In Black.

Jay: Why the big secret? People are smart. They can handle it.
Kay: A person is smart. People are dumb, panicky dangerous animals and you know it.

Forgot to get around to posting the birthdays. So here’s a belated birthday post. Happy Birthday to… Amy, Jen & Kaisara. Hope it was a good one.

It’s 2pm, and I’m still in my jammies. 🙂

Today, I baked cookies, and watched Shrek 3 & 2 (in that order) with the boys. If nap time is successful, we’ll watch Shrek afterwards.

What’s going on with me? Not much. Reading books on Disneyland/DisneyWorld and gardening books. I’m doing my bible study on Thursday mornings again. Organizing my stuff, getting ready to give some bags to Goodwill. Because some of you were wondering about my health, I will tell you that everything seems to be normal, and I have a doctor appt tomorrow to confirm that everything is normal. I feel fine, please don’t worry about me.

Yesterday was the 5th anniversary of Dad’s passing. It’s no harder that day than any other. Everyday, I wish he could have seen my kids, grown fond of them, found joy in them. I know he would have. I wish I could talk to him. I am thankful I still have Mom.

On a lighter note, in tv land 3 of my favorite shows are on. House, Fringe, and Eli Stone! Whoo-hoo! I’m happy ABC renewed Eli Stone, I think it’s a great show. Thank God for my DVR. I’ll close with a quote from Eli Stone, last season.

Eli: It’s not even noon and I’ve already made my end-of-life decision. What have you done today?

I’m here, I just haven’t had anything blogworthy to write about. Which I take as a blessing. Too many people I know are stressed, depressed, or dealing with newborns. And I go about my quiet life, thankful for the quiet. Have to say honestly, that all these new babies & pregnancies stir feelings in me. Then I remember I still have two in diapers, and the feeling passes. 🙂

September was okay, but October is what I am excited for. It means seeing Chad & Khara again, bible study starting up again, running on a relay team for the Denver Marathon, and my in-laws are coming to visit!

Everyone has been pretty healthy this fall (thus far), the weather has been awesome, and I’m even finding time to read again. I have travel fever pretty bad, and no money to soothe it. I’ve got a good start on my Christmas shopping, or least laid out what I plan to buy (which is also hindered by lack of money).

I’ll be oh so happy once the stupid election is over. I’m not even sure what I would do if I could vote. Neither candidate seems to have my issues at heart. Too bad I’m not stupid, then I could be swayed by what some celebrity tells me I should do. All the country’s problems solved! I am mildly concerned about the money market problems, but it’s hard for me to see how I’m affected (although Geoff says our retirement stuff isn’t doing so hot).

I suppose I’ll close now with a quote from Fringe.

Peter: Something on your mind?
Walter: Please. The term “on your mind” vexes me with its depictive inaccuracy.

Make apple cake. Nothing says Fall like apples. 🙂

Dinner at Wynkoop with the Pauleys

Last night, Geoff & I were able to enjoy dinner at one of the restaurant staples of LoDo (Lower Downtown). We met Ryan & Milena (in town on their honeymoon) at Wynkoop Brewing Co. The atmosphere is nice, the food was awesome, and Geoff said he had the best IPA he’s ever tasted. It’s been maybe 6 years since I saw Ryan, who is a friend from my KUCI days. His wife Milena is cool too, and today they head back to Houston to survey the damage to their home. They know for certain that they will have lost all the food in their fridge, but hope that’s the worst of their worries.

It’s hard to believe we’ve lived here for 5 years, and have only eaten downtown maybe three times. I’m sure there are a ton of great places, so we hope to tap into that more often. We took the train downtown, because it’s cheaper and easier than parking there. The only issue is it adds on more travel time (curse of living in the ‘burbs). So while we left LoDo around 10, we didn’t get back to the sitter’s (awesome Amy, Jerry & their kids) until after 11. Elijah was still wide awake, and NOT willing to go home, much less go to bed. Miles eventually crashed at 10:30. I’m gonna owe Amy big time!

Tonight, I’m heading back downtown to go to Women Of Faith with some girls from church. It’s all day Saturday as well. I hadn’t originally planned to go, but Kim got such a good deal on tickets, I thought I’d take advantage of that.

In tv land, I started watching Fringe, which got the lucky timeslot after House. Fringe is right up the X-Files alley, if you dug that, you’ll probably like it too. I’m happy House has returned, since Psych & Burn Notice are done their run until January.

I’ll close with a quote from this week’s House premiere.

Thirteen: This is Dr. House. He’s too brilliant for introductions.